I’m sure the thought of sororities makes you roll your eyes, but give me a chance to explain. This building signifies so much more than friendship for me, and it certainly does not symbolize anything fake or un-genuine. It signifies fitting in, lifelong memories, and unbreakable bonds. I had never been the type of girl to go out of my way to fit in with anyone, so rushing was a questionable process for me. I went into it not knowing what I was getting myself into, and immediately regretted it when I was thrown into such a catty and fake world. But the second I arrived in the Alpha Phi house, it was different. The girls were cool, not fake, and actually nice. It was a relief to say the least.

This building has had the most incredible positive impact on me I could imagine. It is home, in so many more ways than in the literal sense. Our house here at OU is the 3rd largest sorority house in the nation and sleeps 86 girls. This is a source of pride and achievement for our chapter. The meaning of this place is, above all else, family. I have met my best friends, mentored young leaders, and learned an immeasurable amount about myself. My encounters have always been positive, it is a safe haven for me, and always makes me feel grateful to have found a place to actually fit in.